if he has been like this for 3yrs then i dont encourage you to stay, if he cant give money to you, how will he provide for his children when they come. he is irresponsible. he should be thinking of providing for your needs even the bible said you are a giver it didnt say you are the breadwinner. even if youare helping him 3 yrs is to long. girlfriend i suggest you go for someone else, its not the money issue its for yopur future and the future of your unborn children. take care.
Sam M, I honestly do not have a perfect answer. What I suggest, anyway, is that you confess this to God. As a sign of your repentance, this affair must NOT continue. Whether you should tell someone in your family, I cannot say.
Ajikeola, I do not know if you should quit too. But, I cannot fully understand why he does not give you anything, because love GIVES. Is it that he does not have as much as you? But even if that is the case, he should be able to give you things, no matter how small.
Am in a relationship with a guy,i love him so much and i knw he loves me..Bt the problem is he ask me for money.awhich i dnt feel reluctant to give...this has been for 3years nw....He has neva gave me anything all this years....Am confused now,,does he reali love me or wat?...dnt knw if i shld quit..